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Tuesday, January 10, 2006

[Guy That Always Makes You Laugh] 67
[Guy That Never Makes You Cry] 25

My My. Its pretty obvious who won ainnit. As most of you have been asked, the question was on the choice of whether one would pick:

The Funny one who always makes you laugh.
Or
The Nice one that would never make you cry.

A good portion of you picked the former;

You like to laugh. You prefer to be happy, over anything else. Stability of the relationship is usually questioned because the funny one always makes you laugh, but also has the unfortunate ability to make you cry. And cry you shall, because a typical person that always makes others laugh, is a social demon. He would hop from place to place, inflicting his brand of infectious humour around, and attention that you crave so much would be paid less to you. You would seldom find yourself lonely whenever you are around him because of all the smiles he brings into your life. Then again, you know that saying. "No matter how nice a guy is, he will always find a way to make a girl cry."

Crying is important as well my friends. It enables you a bond with the person you are crying with. Or crying for. But then again, tears evoke sadness and its more or less predictable when a person hates to cry. So yes. Good Choice.

A minority of you picked the latter;

You prefer security. You hate getting hurt and therefore, you want a stable relationship. Free of tears, sadness and pain. Possibly because you were hurt before, or because you are fearful. Often a person that feels vulnerable against another that he/she bare feelings for. Many are also under the impression that guys who never make girls cry are boring. or just plain... well, plain. Hahaha, they are not plain people. And as for the above mentioned saying, he would make you cry, but you can look forward to to that fact that he would be the least you expect to hurt you.

This, is a double edged sword. You might not cry for long periods of time, but if you do, the repercussions would be so much more painful. Fret not, a mistake from a guy like that is usually remedied with a hug, kiss and an assurance that he would not do it again. Which he won't.
Again, Good Choice.

So to conclude, this survey does not have a right or wrong answer.
It was.. Educational. and I did enjoy some of the answers that were given. lol.

They ranged from the Short-sighted:
If I'm happy and laughing all the time, I won't get hurt and cry at all! right?

to the Preferential:
I value laughter more than security, so yes. I'll pick Guy A.

to the Wise:
If you laugh all the time, it doesn't mean that you'd be happy. And in that, why would the relationship be stable and why would you still be in that relationship? I pick Guy B.

to the Fickle:
I want A. No. B. No. A. ya. A. eh wait! no I want B!

to the Greedy:
I want both!

and finally, my favourite:
I don't know.

Thanks. :) to all of you. This survey was a pleasure. *grins*

POSTED AT 10:45 PM